The Dark Time of the Year

The days are getting shorter and the dark nights are getting longer here in Indiana. Some of us lament the end of summer while others are excited to put on sweaters, sweatshirts, and boots. Wherever you land on this topic, the reality is that winter is coming!

There are a few topics I’d like to touch on related to the dark time of the year, but I would be remiss not to take this opportunity to remind everyone about the upcoming Daylight Saving Time change on Sunday, November 2, 2025. So, consider yourself reminded and set those clocks back an hour before you go to bed on Saturday, November 1st.

Now for the conversation 99% of you do not want to have: end-of-life planning. While this topic can certainly be uncomfortable, it does not have to be horrible. In fact, I would argue that doing this planning is one of the kindest things you can do for your loved ones. You might also find some peace of mind for yourself along the way.

The library has multiple books to choose from on this topic. Some are “how-to” manuals with access to online resources and forms, while others are more narrative to help you think about what you want to do and why.

CDPL has several new edition publications from Nolo, with additional information and forms to be found at Nolo.com. These books are written by experts in their respective fields. They are also written in plain English so non-lawyers can easily understand the concepts. A couple of excellent examples are “Estate Planning Basics” by attorney Denis Clifford (346.7305 Clifford) and “Get It Together: Organize Your Records So Your Family Won’t Have To” by Melanie Cullen (332.024 Cul). AARP has also created a resource guide published by the American Bar Association titled “Checklist for Family Survivors: A Guide to Practical and Legal Matters When Someone You Love Dies” by Sally Balche Hurme (346.7305 Hur).

Next, we have some excellent resources to help you think about end-of-life issues. “In Case You Get Hit by A Bus: How to Organize Your Life Now for When You’re Not Around Later” by Abby Schneiderman and Adam Seifer (306.9 Schneiderman). While this book talks about some of the nuts and bolts of estate planning, it also covers how to keep a record of your passwords, how to create a record of your personal history, interests, and beliefs, and how to plan your own funeral. Another example is “Caring for Those Who Remain: A Practical Guide for End-of-Life Preparation” by Adolph and Naomi Hansen (306.9 Han). This small, but mighty book was written by a married couple who learned many lessons dealing with their own parents’ deaths that they have put into practice to make it easier on their own children when the time comes.

It is always recommended to consult an attorney for important life matters. However, if you decide to tackle your estate planning on your own, you can have your documents notarized here at the library. A donation in the amount you choose is appreciated for the service. Call the library at 765-362-2242, ext. 1 to make an appointment.

We look forward to assisting you on the second floor soon! Questions? Please call the Adult Services Info Desk at (765) 362-2242, ext. 3. Our hours of operation are Monday-Thursday 9:00 AM to 9:00 PM, Friday and Saturday from 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM, and Sunday from 1:00 PM to 5:00 PM.